Back to my neighbors.

All classes were canceled for Kingitagna day, so (long bitchy and boring story short) I was home on the couch. From here, I can see through the dinning area, and out the kitchen window, at an angle, so the view is of the neighbors drive way. To give privacy, I have three camellia bushes in a row along the property line.

Some time ago, my neighbor asked if he could trim the branches that crosses over the boundary line and were crapping his van when he drove past. I said this would be fine. He then started talking about prune ALL the trees and shrubs in my yard. I politely yet very clearly said, hell no, don't touch them, I like them as they are thank you. He didn't do anything that I saw for several hours. Then I went out. I came back to see every plant on my section pruned down to nothing!!! i was furious! But the real problem was, he had taken so much off my privacy hedge that it no longer works.

So, I was home in the middle of the my Wednesday, and I see movement out of the corner of my eye, I glance up, and find the guys wife standing behind what remains of my privacy hedge, looking through my window! When I got up to go yell at her she quickly turned away and headed for her mail box, and for some reason messed around with the other mail box of our other neighbor. After a another minute, she came back to stand behind my hedges and peek through my windows!!! This, of course, is all a gross invasion of my privacy. It is illegal. it is creepy, and sick and wrong.

I picked up a curtain with heavy embroidery that afternoon.

I told people at uni all ab out it, and they were likewise shocked and thought she was creepy.

M, the eternal disappointment, just laughed. She did not see it as a bad thing. She could not understand why I would thing it was creepy, and had no concern for my right to privacy. The most i got out of her was a "well it's good your moving then".... I haven't sold the house (it isn't even on the market yet) so I am not moving any time soon, so this is no consolation.

so in all... A bad day with highlights featuring a pervert and an unhelpful remark designed to belittle me. Awesome.